13 year old boy getting vaccinated

Six Reasons My 13 Year Old Got The COVID 19 Vaccine

Originally published November 2021. Last reviewed/updated by Craig Canapari, MD in May 2024.

As of May 12, 2021, the CDC recommended that children 12 and up should receive the COVID 19 vaccine after it was given emergency use authorization by the FDA .  The American Academy of Pediatrics has also issued a statement in support of vaccinating all children ages 12 and up. Prior to this, children 16 and up could get the vaccine. My wife and I were thrilled by this and just go our child vaccinated as soon as possible. I’m also recommending that all of my patients twelve and up get the vaccine.

Unfortunately, only 46-60% of parents plan to get their child vaccinated, slightly lower than their own intention. (The slides here and below are from the CDC). Many parents are nervous about the Covid vaccine

 

If you are one of those parents who worry about this, here are my reasons why we wanted to get the vaccine as soon as possible.

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Update: As of November 2nd, the CDC is recommending the vaccine for 5-11 year olds, which is great news as well. Although I wrote most of the post in May, I think that the reasoning behind it is valid.

1. My son could get sick from COVID-19

There’s a widespread belief that kids don’t get sick from COVID -19. Unfortunately, that is not the case, although most children have very mild illness.

The fact is, the incidence of hospitalization for COVID-19 is rising. Look at this graph from the CDC showing that the rate of hospitalization is increasing compared to where we were during the 2009-10 H1N1 influenza pandemic.

Risk of hospitalization with COVID higher than with H1N1 during 2009-10 pandemic
Adolescents are at risk of severe illness from COVID-19— with over 1.5 million cases reported and >13k hospitalizations to day (more than during the 2009-10 H1N1 Pandemic).

During that pandemic, I saw children get sick and die. I also had patients who had serious complications. Most had risk factors (such as asthma or muscular dystrophy), but some did not.

2. The vaccine is effective

The vaccine was shown to work amazingly well in adolescents. Adolescents in the clinical trial produced very high levels of antibody. Moreover, the vaccine was shown to be 100% effective in preventing symptomatic COVID infections. Frankly, these are fantastic results.

3. The Pfizer COVID-19 vaccine is remarkably safe

No serious side effects have been reported in the trial of over two thousand children in this age group.

The primary reactions were local (sore arms) or mild general reactions (fatigue and headaches) and resolved in 1-2 days.

UPDATE: This original post was published on 5/17/21. Shortly after this, news articles broke that the CDC was evaluating cases of myocarditis (inflammation of the heart) predominantly in young males and usually after the second dose of the vaccination. As of now the CDC thinks that these events are consistent with the baseline incidence of myocarditis and not related to the vaccine In layman’s terms, here’s what that means. Myocarditis occurs after viral infections in a small group of children and adults every year. The number of cases reported seems consistent with the usual number of cases. That being said, as a parent, I’m following this story closely.

4. My son wanted the vaccine

When I asked him why, he said, “I’m sick of COVID-19 and I want things to go back to normal. Getting the vaccine will help get us to herd immunity. It will also protect my brother” (who is less than 12). He also notes that a relative is very sick with cancer and that it will protect her as well.

Adolescents are more likely to have COVD infections than younger kids, and can definitely transmit it, even though they tend not to get particularly sick. Here are two examples of this.

Adolescents can transmit COVID-19

5. It helps everyone

Are you sick of wearing a mask? Me too. The fastest way back to normalcy is through vaccination. Getting vaccinated protects children, relatives, and more vulnerable individuals.

Vaccinating everyone is really difficult. Here in the US we are fortunate to have ready access to the vaccine. Getting the vaccine helps us, our neighbors, our country, and our planet.

Vaccinating the world is difficult
NYT Front Page, 5/15/21

6. There is no cost for the vaccine

Honestly, I would be happy to pay a lot of money for the vaccine. Amazingly, I didn’t have to. And neither do you, in the US.  You CANNOT be charged for the vaccine in the USA. The following is from the CDC website:

  • COVID-19 vaccination providers cannot:
    • Charge you for the vaccine.
    • Charge you any administration fees, copays, coinsurance, or the balance of the bill after appropriate reimbursement.
    • Deny vaccination to anyone who does not have health insurance coverage, is underinsured, or is out of network.
    • Charge an office visit or other fee to the recipient if the only service provided is a COVID-19 vaccination.
    • Require additional services in order for a person to receive a COVID-19 vaccine; however, additional healthcare services can be provided at the same time and billed as appropriate.

If anyone is trying to charge you, it’s a scam.

How to get the Covid vaccine for your 12-15 year old child

This is really easy. Search vaccines.gov, text your ZIP code to 438829, or call 1-800-232-0233 to find locations near you.

Here was our experience getting the vaccine.

covid vacccination site, Lanman center at Yale

We went on Sunday after signing up the previous Wednesday. It was easy. We went to a facility at the university where I work.

13 year old boy getting vaccinated

Joe, a firefighter, administered the shot. He said that it was packed on Friday and Saturday with teenagers, but it was very quiet.

We waited 15 minutes and were out of there. Mission accomplished.

13 yo just got his Covid shot

If your child is struggling with sleep during these times, I have articles here and here and here and here on sleep difficulties in the COVID-19 era. 

Update: Now my younger son is vaccinated as well

My younger boy is eleven. In the springtime we had the opportunity to enter him in the Moderna vaccine trial. We elected to defer at this time, but leapt at the chance to join the trial in August. Why did we wait? I wanted to see how the myocarditis story shook out.

Although the trial was blinded, T had a 75% chance of getting the vaccine instead of placebo. Given that his arm was sore after both doses and that he felt a bit under the weather after the second vaccine. As part of the clinical trial, the “code” was broken when the Pfizer vaccine was allowed in 5-11 year olds, and we received confirmation that he had been vaccinated.

More information on why to vaccinate your child:

Sesame Street: The ABCs of COVID Vaccines

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I am tremendously relieved and grateful that all of our family members– my wife and I, children, grandparents, brothers, sisters, nieces and nephews have all been vaccinated. We are looking forward to safely enjoying the holidays together.

Have you vaccinated your child? Do you have questions about the vaccine? I’m not an expert but I am happy to help.

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9 Comments

  1. Hi Craig,
    If been (loosely) following your sleep blog/emails for a few years and appreciate them greatly, despite not completely having the time to read through everything.
    However, this email, blew my mind. THANK YOU so much for explaining why vaccinating is so important. One of my employees mentioned that she didn’t like get an injection of something she didn’t know what was in it. I took the time to explain to her; in addition the fact that we do know the ingredients, perhaps even more so than what is in most processed foods and body products.
    I commend you in sharing this article about your son (who is gorgeous, BTW). Mine are too little, still, but they will certainly be getting theirs asap.
    I only have my first – we are a bit behind you guys down south (I’m from Canada).
    Anyway, cheers. Educate, educate, educate.

  2. Thanks for the article, I also vaccinated my kids last weekend. I feel reassured that it was a good decision after I read your article!
    Thanks!

  3. That’s right, you aren’t an expert. No one knows the long term side effects of this vaccine because it is brand new. It’s disingenuous to tell your followers (that trust you) that it is safe when you haven’t considered the impact this drug could have on our children in the future. With any other drug, a patient would consult with their doctor. The doctor would conduct a risk/benefit analysis to decide if the drug’s benefits would outweigh the risk in that patience UNIQUE situation. Why aren’t we treating the vaccine this way? No drug is one size fits all. How can you possibly recommend this vaccine to all of your patients 12 and up?

    Hate to say that I’m unsubscribing.

    1. Hi Sarah. Sorry you feel that way. I’m not recommending the vaccine, just articulating my reasons for getting AND the recommendations from the CDC and American Academy of Pediatrics.

  4. We pre-scheduled our 14 year old for his vaccine. They were expecting the approval and scheduled appointments with the understanding that if it wasn’t approved in time the event wouldn’t take place. We took our son to the local park district at 2:45 on a Friday and were out within 15 minutes. Our daughter is 11 and will be 12 in three months. I think her birthday present this year will be a COVID shot. If it ever becomes an option for our 3 year old we’d get her one too.

  5. Thank you – great input. I very much appreciate the post. I have 2 kids under 6 years old so no Covid vaccines for them yet. But when the time comes, we’ll be first in line ! I will sleep better at night knowing they are protected while also protecting others that are vulnerable around us.

  6. Thank you for sharing your experience and your research! My kids are 4 and 5, and I’ve been surprised by the amount of speculation and conversation going around. I feel like I should have a good answer to “will you get them vaccinated when you can?” and this will help me articulate my answer better!

  7. I am not getting my children vaccinated for several reasons-
    Transmission and likelihood of being very sick is low in children (which is why close encounters such as school classrooms are okay according to the CDC), we homeschool so we are not around a lot of other people on a daily basis, the long term side effects are unknown, we live healthy lifestyles. We get plenty of raw organic vegetables, we get plenty of vitamin D, sleep (thanks to your tips) and exercise. If at some point we decide to no longer homeschool, we may consider the vaccine. By then there should be more info for concerned parents. As a family, we are completely up to date on all other WHO recommended vaccines.

  8. My kids are all under age 12 but I can’t wait until it’s their turn! My older two in particular, are anxiously awaiting their turn too. Like your son, they want things to get back to normal and they understand that getting vaccinated gets us to herd immunity and protects others who can’t get vaccinated (like their brothers) or don’t mount a good immune response.